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Affirmation

Over the past several months I have been involved as coach and board member of a positive youth development program called Girls on the Run (GOTR).  It has been a wonderful experience and the celebratory 5k run to culminate the 12-week program was the icing on the cake.  As I watched the girls and their running buddies jubilantly cross the finish line with leaps, skips, hugs, high-fives, and cheers, it warmed my heart.  There were girls running with their mothers, fathers, grandparents, and teachers; girls wearing tutus and tiaras; girls with flowers in their hair and butterflies on their cheeks; and a girl on crutches determined to finish the course.  The positive energy surrounding the event was contagious.

Jubilation at the finish line at a recent Girls on the Run event.

Jubilation at the finish line at a recent Girls on the Run event.

In addition to the run, one of the after-school lessons leading up to it, sticks with me too.  It was a lesson about honoring our greatest gifts.  As part of the lesson the girls sat in a chair holding a sign ‘The Love Seat’.  Her teammates would run up to her and share with her a few positive words, such as one of her unique gifts or something about her spirit that they loved.  I had my camera at the ready and loved capturing the beaming smiles on the faces of the girls as they were showered with praise…“You are such a great role model”, “You are so positive, thanks for cheering me on”, “You are a great listener”, “You are an awesome friend and never leave anyone behind.”  My niece, who is in the program, shared with me “I could listen to this all day!”  She is right – it feels so good to have our gifts honored.

Sitting in "The Love Seat" to hear affirmations. It's a good place to be...

Sitting in “The Love Seat” to hear affirmations. It’s a good place to be…

I had the opportunity to experience a similar activity once. It was during a church summer camp in my teens. I remembered feeling amazed and flattered that a group of people who had only come to know me for a short while had paid enough attention to me to notice all these things and that they all had such nice things to say – my caring nature, how I included everyone, I was thoughtful, my patience.  Wow. It felt great! I believe we need more of this in life  to feel appreciated and cherished for our gifts and who we are.  Most of us don’t hear it enough and it feels great.  And sometimes others see things in us we don’t even see.

That week at my church camp we discussed affirmations, and the importance of sharing positive statements with and about each other.  The concept stuck with me and I have tried to carry it with me through my life.  I distinctly remember a couple of girls in my high school who I never heard say a bad word about anyone. They were just really nice, kind, positive girls.  As a young girl it might not have seemed as exciting to spend time with these girls, as with someone who has all the latest gossip, but even then I knew if felt better to be around them.  It feels good to be with people who say positive things.  We have been instilling the same idea in the 3-5th grade girls we have been coaching for GOTR.  It is a lesson as true for adults too.

The saying goes: We are known by the company we keep.  So we should choose our friends wisely.  Moreover we should be a person that other people want to be around, someone who is positive and says nice things.  It might not come easily to all of us, and sometimes we may find ourselves sliding into a gossip mentality, but reminding ourselves to be someone filled with positivity and affirmations helps.  One of the girls I coached shared with us that her mother tells her “If you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say anything at all.”  My mother said the same thing to me and I believe it is a good saying to abide by.

To take this one step further, more than just saying nice, positive things to and about others, is really believing them.  When meeting certain people their gifts are more obvious than others.  Some people we meet are naturally effervescent, friendly, and easygoing, and we are drawn to them.  They may be carefree, slow to take offence or anger, and quick to laugh, and forgive.  My husband has many of these traits, in abundance!  People enjoy his company.  They can say positive affirmations about him and mean them.

I can be some of these things (and some of my strengths are those others highlighted to me, which I mentioned earlier in this piece), but I also know I am a worrier, can get offended easily, can over-analyze things, and take longer to let things go.  I have to work at my carefreeness and help myself to chill out and not worry (I have previously shared that church, yoga, walks/runs, and meditation help me).  When people first meet me, they might not see my gifts as obviously as my husbands.  It might take them longer to discover my characteristics that are worthy and appealing.  But they are there.  And I want to believe they are there in all of us, that we all have great gifts.

There was a quote in a film, The Legend of Johnny Lingo, that my husband and I watched with my niece and nephews a few weeks ago that stuck with me: “There’s a treasure hidden deep within everyone; the adventure is to discover it.“  I love that concept.  Everybody has their own unique gifts/treasures.  In some of us they are readily there for all to see, for others we may have to search deeper to find them.  That is the adventure – to discover, or even help bring out, those gifts in others.

I believe we can help bring out the best (the gifts) in others, by the way we treat and interact with them.  Having been a teacher, and thinking of my favorite teachers, if you have high expectations of your students, are consistent, and let them know you care about them, then you bring out the best in them.  And although I am not a parent myself yet, I believe it would be similar for parenting too.  On the receiving end, if you know someone cares about you, listens to you, or is willing to give you time, then you are more likely to be kind to them in return.  And if someone admires you and believes good things about you, then you are more likely to live up to their expectations.

We have all been in situations where we don’t jibe with someone and want to give up, not waste our time, or even let others know we don’t think much of that person.  But how about we persevere and think the best of them.  Seek the good in people and affirm them.  In searching for others’ strengths and gifts, you never know what you might discover along the way…

Lydia

Postscript:
To learn more about the positive youth development program Girls on the Run, who inspire girls to be joyful, healthy and confident using a fun, experience-based curriculum which creatively integrates running, visit: http://www.girlsontherun.org/

Healthy Living

With my recent birthday and becoming a year older (well only really a day older, but for anyone above a toddler we record our age in years), it has got me thinking about the topic of living a healthy lifestyle.  A few good friends have also just had birthdays and look fabulous for their age – my 50 and 69 year old friends both looking at least 10 years younger than they are.   I have been wondering what the secret is.  Is it a healthy lifestyle, good genes, or a combination?  

Truth be told, I have been thinking about healthy living for a while, but with these recent birthdays it comes to the forefront of my mind.  I don’t mind having a birthday.  In fact, I love birthdays – they are a day to feel special.  I am thoroughly enjoying my late twenties and early thirties.  These years have been the best era of my life and it is no coincidence that it is the same period of time since meeting my husband Jeff.  Also not by chance, I have also been in the best shape of my life.  Jeff has introduced me to a plethora of new sports and is keen to work-out almost daily.

I feel fortunate to live in a place where a healthy lifestyle is the norm.  (Not the whole country mind you. Quite the opposite – although I hope it becomes healthier.  But the city I live in, Park City).  We are lucky to have miles of trails and weather that makes it conducive to being outdoors. It is common to see everyone in the community out on bike rides or hikes.  I love to witness families partaking in exercise, and organized events and races.  Many of my athletic friends kept in shape throughout their entire pregnancies too, with their usual routines of running or cross-fit right up to giving birth.  (One good friend even did push-ups in the parking lot of the hospital just before she gave birth – because she felt good and she could!) People’s love of fitness and the outdoors here is inspiring and contagious.

But a healthy lifestyle is more than just working-out, it is what we consume too.  It has often been said “You are what you eat”.  This encourages us to think about what we are putting in our bodies – it is so important to our health, well-being, and energy.  It is widely held that a diet high in fruits, vegetables, and whole grains, and low in refined, processed foods is best.  There are also trends with paleo (caveman) and gluten-free being current popular diets.  I have noticed restaurants and food companies jumping on the band-wagon to cater to these requests, especially with more gluten-free options becoming available.  This is great for those with celiac disease or other gluten-intolerances (my husband being one of them).  But these diets are not for everyone.  I think it wise to do your own research and decide what is best for you.

One thing that seems apparent, is that more of us than we think have food allergies that we are not attending too.  With an estimated 60% of our immune system in our gut it makes sense to eat what best suits our individual bodies, creating a better overall health and well-being.  In addition to managing our immune system, our gut, part of our digestive system, is also said to control our moods, energy, focus, and sleep – further impetus to eat well (read this article for more info: http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/your-gut-5-things-you-didnt-know/ ).  And don’t forget the recommended 2.2 liters of fluid for women and 3 liters for men per day too.

I try to eat and drink healthily and provide my body with what it needs.  Even more so now we have purchased a Vitamix blender.  I got sucked into the demonstration at Costco – the smoothies and soups they made for us to sample were delicious, and my husband had been wanting one for a while. (I have heard great things about the other main blender brand Blendtec too.  People seem to love them both).  Blenders are an easy way to consume the valuable fruits, vegetables, and fluids your body needs.  We throw anything and everything into ours – fruits and veggies (fresh or frozen and many with their skins and seeds containing beneficial nutrients), yogurt, cottage cheese, probiotic powders, fish oil, and nuts – sometimes all in one drink!  We use our blender almost daily and the smoothies have all turned out great so far.  There are tons of great recipes online to take advantage of.

A balanced diet - part of healthy living.

A balanced diet – part of healthy living.

With all this exercise and healthy eating, I feel in pretty good shape on the outside.  But, how about the inside?  How about our psyches – the human soul, spirit, and mind?   While many of us work on our outsides, our inside often gets neglected.  I previously wrote that beauty is both on the outside and inside.  I believe that healthy is an external and internal phenomenon as well.  Healthy living is for our spirits as well as our bodies. 

To nourish who we are on the inside I believe that doing things for others and being open to them helps us.  There are other aspects of our insides and minds to work on too, and I am getting better at this.  For example, I am trying to think positively and worry less (in previous posts I have professed tendencies towards worry and skepticism).  My writing and reflections have helped, along with great sermons at church on acceptance, forgiveness, love, etc.  (I attend Mountain Life in Park City: http://mountainlife.org/media/sunday-messages/).

I have found yoga and meditation beneficial as well – both great outlets to clear and quiet the mind.  I attended a wonderful yoga class recently.  There was a part during the lesson when the instructor had us all repeat a series of sitting to lying moves together.  It looked amazing seeing us all in the mirror moving and pulsating in sync, as if we were one giant living, breathing organism.  I felt peaceful and connected.  She left us with a passage about peace to think on:

“Peace does not mean to be in a place where there is no noise, trouble or hard work. It means to be in the midst of those things and still be calm in your heart.” – Unknown

Several other passages stood out to me recently too, which encouraged me not to worry:

“Worrying is like praying for what you don’t want.” – Unknown

“Sometimes you just have to stop worrying, wondering and doubting, have faith that things will work out may be not how you planned, but just how they’re meant to be.” – Unknown

“You can worry or you can trust God.  You can’t do both”

With these thoughts and quotes in mind here is to a year ahead of healthy living, in all senses of the word.  I hope yours is too.

Lydia

Boston

My heart goes out to all those affected by the events in Boston yesterday.  News reports state that about 2:50 p.m. (EST), while thousands of runners and spectators at the Boston Marathon were on the streets, two bombs exploded 100 yards and 10 seconds apart near the course’s end in the city’s crowded Back Bay section.  It is indicated that approximately one hundred and forty were injured, over a dozen critically, with three people dead.  What a heartbreaking and tragic thing to happen.

I heard of the tragedy in a telephone call from my husband about an hour after the explosions.  Like many others, my first response was to ensure any loved ones in the area were safe, and then check the news to find out more.  Throughout the remainder of the day images continued to flood in   – of injured people lying on a bloodstained sidewalk; of bystanders helping, tending to wounds, comforting others, pushing them in wheel chairs and gurneys; of people running away tearful and panicked; an abandoned camp chair with the pattern of the American flag (representing the very notion of liberty and freedom) lying on the ground splatted with blood.  The images evoked intense emotions – shock, sorrow, fear, anger, hatred.

You're not alone Boston (image from surfer Bethany Hamilton's Facebook page)

You’re not alone Boston (image from surfer Bethany Hamilton’s Facebook page)

The question resounding in so many people’s heads is why?  Why did this happen?  For what?  Is it the result of having evil people in the world?  Or did something provoke the attackers?  Is it perhaps America’s characteristics, such as their wealth and power, liberty and freedom, and willingness to stand up to others to fight for what is right, which incites people?

Dr. Ablow is one such person that feels this way.  He shared in a statement for Fox News today “Here is the irony:  We are vulnerable, because we are free and strong.  These qualities attract the ire of those who would have us shackled and weak, who are consumed by hatred for individual possibilities, rather than love for what a free person can dream about and strive for and accomplish.“

Perhaps this is true.  Perhaps this is why these villainous people attack this soil.  It could play a part in it.  But there are other countries that are wealthy (think China, Japan, Germany, and France for those with high nominal GDP); have strong military power (Russia, China, India, and the UK follow after USA according to http://www.globalfirepower.com/); countries who stand up and fight out against injustice and terror (troops from dozens of countries, all of NATO, went to war in Iraq and Afghanistan); and many developed countries experience similar levels of rights and freedoms to America (Canada, Australia, and those in Europe to name a few).   Are these countries attacked too?  Sadly yes, many other countries have experienced terrorist attacks.  Is it for the same reasons? Who knows?  And with America being a key global player, are they attacked more than other countries?

According to the Global Terrorism Index based on data from the University of Maryland (http://www.visionofhumanity.org/globalterrorismindex) countries such as American, Canada, Australia, and those in Europe, are actually attacked less than other parts of the world.  Iraq, Pakistan, Afghanistan, India and Yemen have been the most affected by terrorism in the past ten years.  (I think we sometimes relate less to tragedies in countries we feel less akin to, perhaps disassociate from it.  But there are still innocent lives being lost – regular people like you or I, going about their daily lives. Wherever it happens, it is tragic).  The data might help to reassure people in certain areas of the real risks though, and from their feelings of vulnerability and panic.

It is hard however not to feel vulnerable after an attack such as Boston.  Authorities yesterday urged people to stay inside and avoid large crowds, fearing more explosions or other events.  Cities across the country are on heightened security.  Indeed cities and events across the world, such as at the London Marathon, which is scheduled to take place this Sunday, and the Sydney marathon in September are on alert.  Many people believe this is what these wicked, cowardly terrorists want – to incite fear.  We have to stand strong.  We do not want them to win.

I know on a first hand basis these feelings of fear and vulnerability.  I lived and worked in London during the bombings on trains and buses there nearly eight years ago.  Four explosions ripped across central London on Thursday 7 July 2005. Fifty-six people were killed in the blasts and seven hundred were injured.  It was terrifying and tragic.  In the days following the explosions I chose not to take the bus or train to work (my usual modes of transport) but walk the four miles each-way instead.  People on public transport were nervous and especially vigilant of bags and back-packs.  But after several days I returned to my usual routine.  I chose not to let the terrorists affect my life.

This is one thing I hope people can find the strength to do.  To carry on.  To not let it scare or have a negative impact on them.  We must remember that while these events are tragic they are rare.   I also hope we can find strength in the brave and caring actions of those bystanders and uniformed crew who helped others.  This wonderful quote by Fred Rogers (American educator, minister, songwriter, author, and television host) speaks volumes:

“When I was a boy and I would see scary things in the news, my mother would say to me, “Look for the helpers. You will always find people who are helping.”

Seeing the humanity and love in people is what can reassure us and power us on.  I also believe if we stop comparing ourselves to other people and countries, or evoking feelings of superiority (see my post on humility), and aim to show more understanding and acceptance of different ways to live, be, and do things, then this will help put an end to these acts too.

With prayers of peace to you all.

Lydia

Postscript
As of the current moment, 11 pm MST on April 16th, the authorities have not taken anyone into custody in relation to the attack.  They questioned a 20 year old man, but he appears to no longer be a suspect.  We are told that there are currently no claims of responsibility.  The FBI say the range of suspects and motives remains wide open.  Until we know for sure, I believe that pointing fingers and jumping to conclusions is futile and detrimental.  I trust that a full investigation will be done and hope those responsible are found and brought to justice.

Surf’s Up

The beautiful Hawaiian island of O’ahu was the destination of a recent trip of mine.  Amongst the memories created there, one day in particular stood out and I want to share it with you.  The morning began in anticipation, with my husband and I planning to tour the island in our rental car.  The previous day a storm warning had come in with talk of huge waves off the North Shore of O’ahu, so we knew there would be some great surfing to watch.  We also knew that the freeways on the island hugged much of the coastline and the drive would be scenic.  We grabbed our guide book, swimwear, sunscreen, car keys, and were off.

Our first stop was on the south shore of the island, and home of surfing, Waikīkī Beach. It was here that Hawaiian royalty were said to go for their retreats in the 1800s and enjoy catching waves on early forms of longboards. We didn’t want the pros (or royalty) to have all the fun, so we figured we would catch some of the gentler waves here, before heading up to watch the big boy stuff. Waikīkī Beach was on my husband’s bucket list. He is a huge fan of surfing. And also surf movies, such as Endless Summer, Riding Giants, Point Break, Soul Surfer, and Chasing Mavericks – all great films.

We arrived at Waikīkī and found several options for renting boards, we chose Hawaiian Oceans. The waves at Waikīkī are perfect for beginner and intermediate surfers – just a few feet tall and rolling in consistently over a smooth sandy seabed. I was happy to ride about a dozen waves this trip. Things clicked for me. I look more relaxed now on a board and have got the hang of standing sideways, and bending my knees and arms (I used to stand up straight and face forward like a soldier). I am even starting to turn my board along the wave (mainly out of necessity to avoid other surfers and outrigger canoes, but I’m getting it). Jeff has got all this down, and then some. He looks good out there – relaxed, happy, and free (quite different from picturing him in a suit behind a desk).

It is a thrill to catch a wave – to paddle out into the surf and then sit astride your board, floating, feeling the ocean around you, rhythmic and peaceful, listening to it, breathing with it; you watch the waves on the horizon, drawing closer, looking at their size, shape, and spacing, and decide this is the one to go for; you swing your board into position pointing to the shore, and get ready, lying flat on your tummy, feet near the back of the board and hands forward and cupped, ready to pull the water; you watch the wave, its curl building and peak rising, and feel the rush of the water coming behind you; as it gets close, you begin to paddle strong and hard, to get in sync and move with it, you feel the edges begin to break next to you and turn white and foamy; you are careful not to let the nose dive, you straighten your forearms and raise your neck, like a cobra pose in yoga, then jump up, and you are on it, part of it, riding its power into the shore – you cannot help but smile at this joyous moment.

After our own wonderful, but exhausting, surf experience, we were ready to head to the North Shore. We rinsed off in a fresh water shower by the edge of the ocean, grabbed a well-deserved frozen yogurt from across the street (which tasted especially good after expending all of our energy), and jumped in the car. The drive up the coastline lived up to our expectations – one of the prettiest views from a freeway I have seen. Near the northern most point, in the town of Kahuku, we stopped to re-fuel at the popular roadside truck Giovanni’s Shrimp, and also had some delicious Uncle Woody’s BBQ corn.

Tummies full, our next stop was around the peninsula and down to the famous Banzai Pipeline, at Ehukai Beach Park. We left the car and headed towards the beach. Throngs of spectators gathered along the back section of the sand. Orange flags running parallel to the shoreline along the center of the beach, designated it closed (to all but the experts). It heightened everyone’s anticipation – these waves were serious. We walked 100 ft, came to a clearing right in front of the Team Volcom Pro Surfer’s house (this must be a good spot), laid down our towels, and sat.

The sound of the waves was thunderous. There was a constant loud hum in the background, as the large waves crashed and broke; it sounded like a plane’s engine. This was layered with a gentler hushing, as they reached the shore and swept and pulled against the sand. The waves were mesmerizing to watch as they came in in sets. Their base was dark and menacing, but towards their tip they lightened into shades of turquoise, and at their thinnest point the light from behind shone through giving them a luminous glow. The wind caught the tops of the waves, creating white mist whipping off the back. As they broke the foam would gallop forward like white stallions, some getting ahead of the others, jockeying for position, continuing along the length of the wave to create a sweeping barrel.

The waves were like a giant wall, 25 ft or more, towering over the two dozen surfers and bodyboarders, who looked like ants floating out there in their wetsuits.  The crowd at Banzai watched in excitement, waiting for a brave surfer to make their move.  When they caught a wave a cheer would emit from the crowd, none louder than from the Volcom house behind us, who were stoked for their friends and team mates.  We gazed, awe-struck, as the rider charged along the barrel or tube, known also in surfing as the “green room”.  They ran their hands along the back wall, but kept up their speed, trying to outrun their opponent before it came crashing down with a triumphant roar, sending plumes of foam in every direction.

Those gathered were a blend of cultures. A tall, pale, scrawny Caucasian guy with long dark dread-locked hair, stood chatting to a beefy, tanned Hawaiian. There were young and old, locals and visitors, and almost everyone, including me, had a camera poised to catch the perfect shot. But when the pros came in from riding their giant waves and headed to their beach houses, despite the fact I had so recently been snapping their pictures, I didn’t want to invade their privacy, so looked away nonchalantly, and said nothing. I quickly reflected that if I had come in from an incredible feat I would want someone to acknowledge it. The younger spectators were the most confident and friendly to the surfers. They would brazen up and ask them questions or wish them luck. One surfer responding “Thanks man, I’ll take all the luck I can get”. I realized I wanted to take a leaf out of the kids’ books and not be so embarrassed. I endeavored to congratulate the next surfer.

That next surfer turned out to be Volcom pro Gavin Beschen, tall, slim, and tanned, with shaggy blond hair, and stubble. Gavin had a gnarly ride out there. He dropped in, rode the barrel, but then fell and got pummeled by the surf. It snapped his board clean in two. It is wild seeing what the power of the waves can do to the board. Thankfully he knew what he was doing and it left his body unscathed. After catching the end of his board he jogged back up the beach carrying the two pieces. Jeff went up to him and fist bumped. “Hey man, it was cool to watch you. You were impressive.” Gavin replied with a smile “Yeah, some waves are good and some are bad. It is just good being out there.” So true -it is good being out there.

Team Volcom Pro Surfer Gavin Beschen comes in from riding Banzai Pipeline, happy but with a broken board.

Team Volcom Pro Surfer Gavin Beschen comes in from riding Banzai Pipeline, happy but with a broken board.

While watching the surfers the sun began to dip, so we made our way back to the car. We stopped to pick up two cups of iced lemonade at a stand between the beach and the parking lot, manned by a couple of cute, sun-kissed girls with freckled noses. I am not sure if it was their sweet personalities, the amazing surfing we had just witnessed, the scenic surroundings, or heat of the day, but the drink tasted so good and refreshing. We sipped and listened to some tunes as we headed back towards the hotel. Not far down the street we rounded Waimea Bay and saw several dozen more surfers in the water and a row of cars stopped to look. Jeff and I looked at each other and couldn’t resist. Jumping out the car, lemonades in hand, we sat on the guard rail and watched a few more waves. As the sun set, casting long golden rays against the long grass at the side of the road, a small boy jumped up on a rock outcropping and pulled out a ukulele. His notes barely audible above the crash of the surf.  It was a perfect end to a wonderful day. I smiled to myself. Aloha Hawaii, until next time…

Lydia

Favorite Things

I spent the past few days doing one of my favorite things, which is spending time with loved ones. Well I did several of my favorite things actually, as I also traveled, went for walks and felt the sunshine on my skin, cuddled my nephew, laughed over old pictures and memories, took photos, baked cakes, tried new foods, and sang songs. My favorite things occurred on a quick trip to Seattle to see my sister, brother-in-law, and nephew, who recently moved there, and also my mum, who was over visiting from England. The song by the same name, from the film The Sound of Music, became our theme tune during my trip.

My Favorite Things is one of my favorite songs to sing. I love the actress, Julie Andrews, who sings it, who not only stars in The Sound of Music, but also Mary Poppins, and The Princess Diaries, to name a few. She has a beautiful voice and wonderful smile. Hers were the songs I would sing to children on the chairlifts, when I taught as a ski instructor – “Doe, a deer, a female deer…” or “Just a spoonful of sugar helps the medicine go down…” could be heard drifting past the pine needles to the surrounding chairs. It made me smile when one little girl, upon hearing me sing in my British accent, asked me in wide-eyed innocence “But are you Mary Poppins?  Are you?” Invariably when I am around children, the songs come out.

Over the past few days I found myself humming or singing My Favorite Things as I made tea, or heard my mum sing it as she pottered about, and all of us would sing it to my nephew James. We like to sing in my family (well, at least the girls do). I will always remember my mum singing when we were growing up. Each morning she would skip into the room I shared with my sister, raise the floral Austrian blinds with the pink trim which she had sewn for us, and proclaim in her sing-song manner that it was a wonderful new day.

My family would sing in the car on our weekly drive to my grandmother and grandfather’s house; my parents, siblings, and I would sing to Bob Marley or Motown tapes while making dinners; we sang songs to learn our times tables; at karaoke while on holidays; and my sister, friends and I would sing at the bus stop on the way home from school. It was not always Von Trapp style songs mind you, my family humored me with Vanilla Ice’s Ice, Ice, Baby, when I was 11. The singing wasn’t always tuneful either (my sister and I were encouraged to leave a karaoke machine after a particularly untuneful version of U2’s With Or Without You), but singing made us feel good.

In the song from The Sound of Music, the favorite things include Raindrops on roses and whiskers on kittens, Bright copper kettles and warm woolen mittens, Brown paper packages tied up with strings. I can visualize each one, something simple and pleasant, which puts a smile on your face. They evoked happiness for the character Maria in the film, when she was feeling sad. It inspired me to jot down my favorite things from my recent trip, in the style of the original song (but I took poetic license to add an extra verse):

Some of my favorite things from the past few days.

Some of my favorite things from the past few days  -picnics, candles, walks, blossom, and babies.

Picnics in paper and sun on our faces,
Playgrounds and swing sets, and skipping all places,
Candles, and birthdays, and a restaurant that spins,
These are a few of my favorite things.

Walking by water and ducks going swimming,
Chatting and hiking with my favorite women,
Blossoms on branches and the first signs of spring,
These are a few of my favorite things.

Wide blue eyed babies, so trusting and loving,
The smell of fresh muffins that bake in the oven,
Tickles and giggles and laughter that rings,
These are a few of my favorite things.

Cuddles and cradles, and small toes and fingers,
Bouncing the baby his sweet smell that lingers,
Chuckles at midnight at photos and things,
These are a few of my favorite things.

Though I miss you, know I love you,
And we won’t feel sad,
We’ll simply remember our favorite things,
And then we won’t feel so bad!

That one is for you Mum, Madeleine, August, and nephew James. I like writing poems and sometimes include them in birthday or thank you cards for people (for some friends it has been the first poem/rap/ditty ever written for them). It puts a smile on people’s faces. What are your favorite things to do for yourself and others? I am lucky to get to do some of mine again this week with my husband and some great friends who are visiting us. I hope you get to do your favorite things soon.

Lydia